Practically Speaking: 22 March 2013

Words Of Affirmation
For the Words of Affirmation person, you are not limited to the expression alone (ex. I love you or I appreciate you). Although theses words fill their love tank, they also want to hear the reasons behind those words—why do you love me? Take a moment to think through why you love, care, or appreciate someone. It may be a spouse, family member, child, friend, colleague, or other relationship. Let them know the why behind the words and watch them light up with joy. (Relationship: All)

Acts Of Service
In the workplace, you can speak the Appreciation Language of Acts of Service. If you notice a coworker overwhelmed with projects, offer to help them out in some way. Not only will you strengthen a friendship, but you will also help to reduce their stress level and create a more positive work environment. (Relationship: Workplace)

Receiving Gifts
If you want to love or appreciate someone in your life who is primarily a Receiving Gifts person, try getting them a ticket to their favorite movie, theater, or sporting event. The key to making it extra special is to be listening ahead of time for their interests and purchase tickets accordingly. For example, if they despise The Hobbit, you may not score big with a tickets to that particular movie. Listen closely and the love tanks will be filled. (Relationship: Any)

Quality Time
Did you know that if you are separated from someone you love by distance, a hand written letter can actually fill the love tank of a Quality Timer? Because you took the time to sit down, hold it in your hands and write it, this expression can be an excellent way to spend time together when apart. The time the recipient spends reading it over and over again will make them feel special and cared for. (Relationship: Love Separated by Distance)

Physical Touch
Go to a local park or gym and play a game of basketball with your spouse. Be playful and fun, but don't worry about who is winning. You can even change the game of Horse to Romance. After a few high fives, fist bumps, and possibly even a few love pats, you both will emerge winners . . . no matter who actually wins. For added fun, pick a prize you will be playing for. (Relationship: Marriage)