Practically Speaking: 5 April 2013

Words Of Affirmation
Sometimes saying what we think can get us into trouble. But if you are in a relationship with a person whose primary love language is Words of Affirmation, learn to speak out the positive thoughts you have towards them. Husbands: if your wife looks nice when you come home, tell her. Wives: If you like the way he looks in those jeans, tell him. Parents: Tell your kids you are proud of them for working hard on difficult homework. Too often we miss the moment and unintentionally hold back the very words that can fill the love tanks of those we love. (Relationship: All)

Acts Of Service
Serving your spouse breakfast in bed can be a great way to fill his/her love tank. Think through the morning and prepare a plan of action. Don't just leave them stranded in the bed waiting until you fix everything without a magazine, book, or devotional—unless, of course, they are sleeping. Think through the presentation. Remember, don't let this expression of love backfire by neglecting the dishes or leaving a mess in the kitchen. (Relationship: Marriage)

Receiving Gifts
If you are a parent of an elementary aged student(s), visit your local dollar store and stock up on some little toys or trinkets that your child would enjoy. Then when packing his/her lunch, drop one in each day and let them find it at lunchtime. They will know you put a little extra thought—and love—into preparing their lunch and feel special. (Relationship: Parent to Child)


Quality Time
Next time you are watching a TV show with a child, spouse, or friend, turn the volume on mute during the commercial breaks and start a conversation (if you need help, try one of the conversation starter series). Make sure they have your undivided attention. When the show comes back on, unmute... but not if they are still talking. Make them feel more important than the TV show. (Relationship: Marriage, Parents, Family, Friends)

Physical Touch
If you want to show appreciation for someone, a high-five or fist-bump can often be a non-threatening and fun way to express that appreciation for others. In the workplace setting, be aware that not everyone will feel comfortable with this. Seek to know the culture and understand the comfort level of those relationships first to avoid awkward situations. (Relationship: All)